1. Can’t forgive or move past issues
This challenge can also involve reoccurring issues, a common problem. The basis could often be trauma, like an affair or another severe event that caused betrayal, rejection, or rejection. These situations set up the couple to have the same arguments over and over again. It is crucial for couples suffering from this issue to learn how to navigate emotions by discovering the reasons for becoming stuck. Solutions counseling has helped many couples find fast and easy approaches to help to reconnect healthily.
2. Poor communication
A breakdown of communication is a breakdown of the relationship. If left unattended, communication breakdowns can cause a deterioration of intimacy and feel connected with the other person. Communication is best to resolve with a Solutions Counseling Professional with training and experience focusing on helping couples with this issue.
3. Not connecting sexually or lack of intimacy
There are usually multiple reasons for the lack of intimacy in a relationship, like stress, depression, life events, and medication. Whatever the reason, if one or both partners feel a lack of intimacy, it is a problem for both. Solutions Focused Counseling has helped many couples to revitalize their intimacy and regain that particular part of their relationship.
4. Finances
Money is one of the significant factors that cause severe relationship problems. Depending on beliefs about how to handle money and not matching with your spouse’s views can produce some of the most significant factors that result in relationship breakdowns. There is hope! Solutions Focused Counseling helps couples to come to an understanding and practical steps to align with each other’s financial goals.
5. Kids
Although children can be a great addition to a couple, it complicates a relationship. Some research shows 45% of marriage problems can be related to issues around children and parenting. Conflict can feel like a permanent part of your life if you don’t align with your spouse on parenting. Solutions Focused Counselors use some of the best family approaches to help bring peace, love, and harmony back into your home.
6. The “Spark” went out
Being friends with your spouse is important, but it is necessary to make it not turn into roommates. If a couple begins to interact more as friends than they do as a couple, it becomes coexistence. Couples must communicate, converse, spend quality time, and maintain intimacy to keep the “fire” burning. Solution Focused counselors help you to rekindle the spark in your relationship.
If one or both partners disengage, the marriage is heading for troubled waters and usually continues deteriorating. Without professional help, troubled relationships get worse. That’s why we are proud to say Solution Focused counselors have helped numerous couples to find their way back into being happy couples. Call Solutions Focused Counseling Centers, and let us help you to rediscover why you fell in love in the first place.